Relaxing Massage

A relaxing massage is one of the best ways to pamper your beloved as it melts away the stress and connects you both through touch.

Take your time to make it memorable and romantic. Turn down the lights, light some candles or burn some incense to set the mood. Remove any distractions and clutter. Silence all cell phones. Set the temperature of the room to a warm and comfortable level. Place a glass of water or favorite drink nearby.

Use some soft blankets on the floor or a firm bed for your loved one to lie face down. An old sheet is recommended on top since the oil may stain. Put some towels in the dryer for a few minutes to warm them up and cover your special someone. The towels will also help keep any massage oil from getting on the sheets or blankets.

Learn some simple steps to give an effective relaxing massage from the sources below. The motion of your hands and the amount of pressure is important. Use a quality massage oil on your hands to keep them flowing smoothly over the skin. Rub your hands together to warm them before beginning.

Start with the back, neck, and shoulders. A combination of long gliding motions, short circular strokes, and slowly kneading like dough are the basic moves. Focus on the muscles without pressing on the spine and bones.

Ask for feedback from your partner during the massage. The pressure you use with your hands may be too hard for your partner and you don’t want to make them more sore than when you started. 

Once you've started, always leave at least one hand on your partner until the end to keep your partner comforted without wondering if you have finished.

Don't worry about proper technique. This is all about bringing relaxation, not becoming a professional.

Highly recommended to change and wash the sheets after using any oil as the smell will linger in the sheets.

Your loved one will welcome a romantic and relaxing massage of their feet, back or entire body with every soothing stroke.